「軟硬兼施」

(pos:動詞)
<explanation>
yue:同時用強硬同埋懷柔嘅手段；通常用嚟迫人做啲佢本身唔想做嘅嘢
eng:to use both hard and soft tactics; to combine threats with promises
<eg>
yue:教細路仔有時要軟硬兼施，佢哋先會服你㗎。 (gaau3 sai3 lou6 zai2 jau5 si4 jiu3 jyun5 ngaang6 gim1 si1, keoi5 dei6 sin1 wui5 fuk6 nei5 gaa3.)
eng:Teaching children requires a balance of discipline and kindness; they will respond to you better that way.