「順得哥情失嫂意」

(pos:語句)(sim:左右做人難)(sim:手掌又係肉，手背又係肉)
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yue:滿足到呢個又滿足唔到嗰個；好難令大家都滿意
eng:to be caught between two parties or factions, to be in a situation where supporting one party will mean making an enemy of other party; literally: to take one's elder brother's side and lose the favour of his wife
<eg>
yue:老婆同阿媽嗌緊大交，順得哥情失嫂意，我幫邊便都死。 (lou5 po4 tung4 aa3 maa1 aai3 gan2 daai6 gaau1, seon6 dak1 go1 cing4 sat1 sou2 ji3, ngo5 bong1 bin1 bin6 dou1 sei2.)
eng:My wife and my mom are arguing, what a dilemma, if I take any side I will die.